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What’s your favorite position?

Uncategorized | 30 Aug 2012 | No Comments

Mr. Phelps, I see you’ve listed “dabut” under your hobbies? “

“Yeah, that’s Da Butt. I also like Tennis”

-The Ladies Man

Donkey Punch.


Prison guard.

Names sound familiar? They’re some of the sex acts you’ve joked about but (hopefully) have never done. And you know what, guys? That’s ok. Knocking a girl out cold at your point of climax isn’t the best move for getting her to invite you back for a round two.

Do you know what can? Confidence. Especially when it comes to positions. Many of us have turned to the Kama Sutra to get ideas, but it may be tough to navigate since the list of positions goes on and on. Which ones are the best to whip out? Which are the most difficult to maneuver? And which, dear god of the mighty O, will snap our hamstrings if we even try to bend as we’re told?

Let’s start with some of the positions you’re sure to see in those porns you’re watching for, you know, research purposes only:

1. Reverse Cowgirl. This is a popular one in the movies, with the guy laying on his back and the girl sitting on top, her ass and back in his sightline since she’s facing the wall as she pumps up and down. It’s more of a leg workout than a position she can get lost in.

2. The Pile Driver. Christ, just look at the name. For this one, the woman is putting her weight on her face, forearms, and shoulders, while her ass is sticking straight up in the air. The guy enters from above her with his dick pointed down, driving her down into the ground with each thrust. Is it sexy in your mind? Mine either.

3. Standing 69. Exactly what it sounds like. The guy stands and holds the girl upside down as they both engage in oral sex. How long can this position last? And how can the guy really get into it when he’s worried about dropping her and breaking her neck?

Now let’s take a look at some other moves you’ve seen in the movies that are not just do-able, but enjoyable as well:

1. Missionary. You know it. I know it. Hell, your parents and grandparents know it. It’s the old fashioned, old reliable horizontal mambo. It’s easy on the body and is actually one of the more intimate positions since you can talk with, lock eyes with, and kiss your lover throughout your sex.

2. Doggy Style. Just some more proof that nature knows what’s best. The woman is down on all fours as the man enters from behind. This position allows for deep penetration and, for her pleasure, the patented reach-around clit rub.

3. Girl On Top. It’s like the Reverse Cowgirl, but with the woman facing forward it’s a lot easier on her legs. Many women favor this position because it lets the drive the action. Sex can be as fast or as rhythmic or as hard as she wants it. And guys like laying back and watching her work.

As much as we’d like to imagine it’s not, we all know porn is staged. It’s the actors’ jobs to entertain us, to make us believe that every pump and thrust is orgasm in action. There’s nothing wrong with trying something you see on the screen or in the middle of the Kama Sutra, but remember that the harder the position looks the harder it will be to achieve proper stimulation.

And please, for all of our sakes, leave the Dirty Sanchez in the jokes and out of your bedroom.


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Sugar Daddy’s and Mommy’s

Love and Sex | 27 Aug 2012 | No Comments

Are you in college? A little broke? Need some extra cash or maybe a little vacation?

Check out these websites:,

Commonly referred to as “Sugar” Sites. These websites allow person’s of financial stability of find a partner in need of some extra funding. The exchange is a person’s time, sex, and even sometimes face to face meetings never take place. Let’s just say that you have a foot fetish but aren’t exactly the out going type. Find somebody to send you pictures of their feet once a week for $50 each picture. How great is that? You can live out your jolly’s without having to even step out of your house.

If prostitution is the oldest profession in the world then surely the “Sugar” Relationship has existed for just as long. There is not enough information out there to really know the history of the Sugar Daddy/Mommy but Sultan’s, Emperor’s and figures like Cleopatra come to mind. Money means power and most people will do just about anything to just be close to that power.

Not all Sugars are old men and not all Babies are young girls.  The different types of Sugars and Babies out there are endless and everyone is looking for something a little different.   You can even find married couples that are looking for a Baby to take on vacation or maybe as a live in nanny.  Dinner, dancing, cocktails soon lead to other things; jewelry, vacations, cars. The options could be endless if you find the right sugar.

In later days the idea of the Sugar Baby as a Gold Digger has become more prevelant. Is there a difference between the two arrangements. That all depends upon the arrangement. If the Sugar Baby is only looking for cash and will do just about anything to get that money, then they are by a Gold Digger. A good Sugar relationship is one of mutual respect, understanding and enjoyment. If you don’t like spending time with a guy who looks like the one to the left here then he better have a lot of cash!

Money and gifts are not always the foundation of a Sugar relationship.  Not all Sugar Babies are looking to find someone to help pay the bills or provide them with a shopping allowance. Some Babies just like an older sophisticated man or woman.  Its falls under the lines of a type of fetish. For the Sugar they like the feeling of taking care of someone, being the provider.  For the Baby the turn on is being taken care of and having all of their needs met.  These role can also fall under the typical DOM /SUB roles we have all heard about.

Just about any arrangement can be made, so let your imagination and fantasies run wild! if you are the sugar baby you might be putting yourself into a entire new world of exciting adventures.













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Sex Education in School

Love and Sex | 17 Aug 2012 | No Comments

One of the biggest topics in the United States today is the presence of sexual education in public schools. There are many people on both sides of the issue and it is greatly debated amongst politicians and parents alike.

All states are somehow involved in sex education for public schoolchildren. As of March 2012:

  • 21 states and the District of Columbia require public schools to teach sex education (including HIV education);
  • 33 states and the District of Columbia require students receive instruction about HIV/AIDS;
  • 18 states require sex education curricula to be medically accurate and/or age appropriate. State policies vary in their determination of “medically accurate;” some require that state health departments review curricula, while others require that the facts taught come from “published authorities upon which medical professionals rely.”

Many of these statutes define parents’ rights concerning sexual education:

  • 37 states require school districts to allow parental involvement in sexual education programs;
  • Three states require parental consent before a child can receive instruction;
  • 35 states and the District of Columbia allow parents to opt-out on behalf of their children.

Stats pulled from NCLS


Though the teen birth rate has declined to its lowest levels over the last few years, the United States still has the highest teen birth rate in the industrialized world. Three in 10 girls in will be pregnant at least once before their 20th birthday. Teenage mothers are less likely to finish high school and are more likely than their peers to live in poverty, depend on public assistance, and be in poor health. Their children are more likely to suffer health and cognitive disadvantages, come in contact with the child welfare and correctional systems, live in poverty, drop out of high school and become teen parents themselves. These costs add up, according to The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, which estimates that teen childbearing costs taxpayers nearly $10.9 billion annually.

Soaring rates of sexually transmitted diseases among teens are adding urgency to the debate over sex education. Conservatives claim the alarming statistics illustrate why abstinence should be the single mantra when it comes to sex ed. Liberals counter that the increase in disease is the strongest case for more detailed information. Caught in the middle are America’s kids, who are more vulnerable than ever to potentially deadly diseases.

In the debate over sex education, one thing is undisputed: The average kid today is immersed in sexual imagery. A generation that has grown up on the sordid details of the Starr Report, watched thong-clad teens gyrate on Spring Break cable specials, or read the cover of nearly any women’s magazine in the grocery check-out line is familiar with the facts of life.

But young people face a barrage of confusing messages. Along with titillating images from the media, some kids are told to “just say no” to sex. In school, others are taught how to put condoms on bananas in preparation for the real thing, and still other children receive no information whatsoever.

While the right and the left may never come to an agreement about the proper way to educate our children about sex and STD’s one thing remains certain; people will continue to have sex whether they are educated or not. Parents need to be actively participating in the education of their children.  The schools cannot do it alone.

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The Sexual Double Standard

Love and Sex | 13 Aug 2012 | No Comments

Evan gets with a lot of girls, what a stud. Lindsay went home with a boy last night, what a slut!

Billy Crystal once said, “Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place,”

If a key opens a lot of locks, is a master key. If a lock is opened by a lot keys its a bad lock.

If you own and operate a vagina chances are you’ve been called a slut once or twice in your life. If your boobs grew faster then others’, if you happened to kiss a random boy at a party, wore a bikini on a high school trip, talk openly about sex you’ve been called a slut. It doesn’t take much to be called one and all girls have had to deal with it at one time or another.

So why is it that when guys get lots of action they are deemed playas, studs and pimps. The Sexual Double Standard has been around for most of recorded history and plays into the fact that sex for men and women is seen differently. Men have traditionally been considered the providers and women the homemakers.

A study in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality indicates that we’re putting more sexual limitations on men. On the other hand, the double standards regarding women’s sexual behaviors are being slightly alleviated.

While it’s considered normal, and even desirable, for women to push the limits with sexual experimentation, the Canadian study found that females find a male’s sexual prowess more acceptable than their own. They support the view that females should be less promiscuous than males.

She should experiment. He shouldn’t.

The Canadian study, involving 104 undergraduates, reported that men are more limited by bedroom taboos. They’re expected to be highly sexual, yet less experimental. The opposite is expected of females.

Overall, men worry about keeping up a macho image when it comes to expressing themselves sexually. Women are expected to be virginal till they get in the bedroom, and then it’s anything goes. At some point, all of us need to quit propagating and enforcing these problematic notions around our sexuality.


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